To be frank, Rey is not that good at sports. He couldn't bounce a ball 10 times on the same spot, he couldn't do a proper back somersault, nor could he skip using a skipping rope. I thought everything would improve if I put him in gymnastics in school. It has been 1 year now and he is lagging behind his peers. Reason being he doesn't practice at home. I used to adopt a 'let-him-develop-on-his-own' attitude but I decided that I just couldn't close an eye anymore. He didn't pass a back-somersault test yesterday and if you see the disappointment on his face, it will tear your heart apart. Knowing his character, if he is left alone he will still not practice unless someone forces him to. And that someone will have to be ME.
I: Do you KNOW WHY you didn't pass the test?
R: Because I didn't practice.
I: Then can you practice NOW? (pointing to the mattress)
R: Can I eat my snacks 1st? (still not motivated)
I: Can! You eat my rotan (cane)!
He sees the cane and scrambles to the mattress.
yah, forced motivation can be detrimental to a child's character. But spare the rod, spoil the child mah. I made him do about 20 proper back-somersaults (the sideward ones doesn't count) and showed him the proper way of bouncing balls (no more praises for lousy bouncing because if you do, he will think it is good enough). He practiced for a whole 1 hour.
End result? A very happy Rey because he realizes he can do back-somersaults like others too! And he knows he too can bounce a ball well, if he practices hard.
So everyday from now, he is going to spend at least half an hour doing these exercises.
2009年5月29日金曜日
2009年5月24日日曜日
Rey's 1st Instant noodles
Although Japanese consumption of instant noodles is No. 1, I don't let Rey eat instant noodles because I don't think there is any nutritious value in it. But Rey wanted to try just once and I see no harm in doing so. His opinion? Mama's homecooked food is the BEST, whoohoo!
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As you know, the swine flu is creating news and 'panic' in Japan. When the latest report of a boy from Kyoto who suffered from the virus came out, the MOE declared a 6-days-no-school for children in Kyoto city. Hooray for the children and boohoo for the parents. This is so different from a typical holiday when you can get on trains and go for outing. Children are required to stay home all the time (if possible) less they contract the virus, and mothers cut their supermarket shopping to the minimal, all for social responsibility and self-protection. Of course, we are not so 乖 lah, equipped with our masks, we went to the library, park, video store and supermarkets at off-peak hours so as to avoid crowd.
2009年5月19日火曜日
2009年5月16日土曜日
Ultraman vs Monsters
2009年5月13日水曜日
grinding coffee
2009年5月12日火曜日
Preparation for rice planting
The day has come for another round of rice planting. But before that, the children get to step and play in the muddy field, just to make the mud soft.
Rey was buzzing with excitement he just couldn't stop jumping about.2009年5月3日日曜日
Golden week
Planned a tight 3 day scedule for Rey's golden week holidays.
Ultraman show in Osaka. See how excited he is? It was actually a school day but skipped school just to watch the show. Still, there were crowd of mums and children but we got the 1st row (phew)
Ultra-Mebius fought the monster
Ultra-Max and Mebius
the golden handshake!
...and photo!
lunch
Hep-five ferris wheel
1 night in Kobe
digging for fossils
got 1 as a souvenier
Baby T-rex taking a walk
Rey got his additinal Ultraman toys at the flea market.
Ultraman show in Osaka. See how excited he is? It was actually a school day but skipped school just to watch the show. Still, there were crowd of mums and children but we got the 1st row (phew)
Ultra-Mebius fought the monster
Ultra-Max and Mebius
the golden handshake!
...and photo!
lunch
Hep-five ferris wheel
1 night in Kobe
digging for fossils
got 1 as a souvenier
Baby T-rex taking a walk
Rey got his additinal Ultraman toys at the flea market.
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